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Upcoming Retreats

Apr 06

Rejuvenate Midwest

April 6, 2018 - April 8, 2018

Be realistic. Adoptive and foster parents only get about 3 minutes of privacy every day…your potty break. And yeah….we know thats when you check your social media accounts. We are here to help you use those 3 minutes to reach those unrealistic goals….read that book about how to raise special needs kids, go to that training by that super parent that has it all together. So ignore the whining and knocking at the bathroom door, relax and know the next three minutes are just for you. Don’t forget to flush and wash your hands.

Segment 1 – Handling the Holidays

Segment Overview

The first segment of Potty Break, Handling the Holidays consists of 13 episodes dedicated to helping family with adopted and foster children with special needs thrive during the holidays. Jennie and Lynn laid out 5 reasons that kids struggle more during the holidays that at any other time of the year.

  1. Sensory Processing Issues: All the extra sights, sounds and smells overstimulate children with Sensory Issues. Sensory issues are common among children with in utero exposure and other early traumas (Episodes 3, 4 & 5).
  2. Anxiety: All kids get anxious around the holidays. As anxiety goes up, functioning goes down. Many of the children that were adopted from hard places already had very little capacity for anxiety so the holiday put them over the edge (Episodes 6 & 7).
  3. Self Regulation Issues: For a variety of genetic, mental health, and trauma related reasons, some children lack the capacity to regulate their own emotional state. Parents of these kids will need to help them stay regulated and set realistic expectations (Episodes 8, 9, 10 & 11).
  4. Trauma triggers: Often the worst times of our kids lives happened during the holidays. Sensations and situations can trigger a traumatic response which can cause a physiological response, bring up an old memory that they may try to suppress or both. Parents can help their kids discover what is going on to reduce the child’s regression. (Episode 12)
  5. Grief and Loss: Special moments are a reminder of what our kids lost or wish they had. Processing this loss periodically is a necessary part of acceptance. (Episode 13)