Be realistic. Adoptive and foster parents only get about 3 minutes of privacy every day?your potty break. And yeah?.we know thats when you check your social media accounts. We are here to help you use those 3 minutes to reach those unrealistic goals?.read that book about how to raise special needs kids, go to that training by that super parent that has it all together. So ignore the whining and knocking at the bathroom door, relax and know the next three minutes are just for you.?Don?t forget to flush and wash your hands.